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6/29/2009

Coming Home

Sometimes it happens that we stumble upon this home -- perhaps while listening to music, sitting still in a garden, of simply looking into a blue sky -- we call it a miracle, a once-in-a- lifetime experience. But then we don't know how to find it again. And we don't know that home is right where you are, in your ordinary life.

A meditation practice teaches how to come home any time you want to.
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6/28/2009

Coming Home

Meditation gives you a taste of who you really are, your essential nature. I like to call it home. It feels like home. You know you're getting there when the muscles in your body relax, the breath is slow and steady, emotions are in neutral and your internal talk isn't pressured -- it simply comes and goes.

Many of us walk around feeling homeless because we have not found that home. Sadly we're not
taught how to look for it.
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The Psychotherapist's Corner

A meditation-inspired psychotherapy offers people a way of understanding their problems as well as a way of healing them... This full day retreat offers an opportunity to engage in learning mindfulness psychotherapy.

"The approach to working with others that I advocate is one in which spontaneity and humanness is extended to others."
---Chogyam Trungpa Rimposhe


Confusion, though uncomfortable, is a healthy state of mind. That's because it creates a great need for calm and clarity.


Psychotherapists can teach depressed people to become aware of their internal talk. This leads to the insight that thoughts are simply thoughts - nothing more. It also teaches that the person is bigger than his or her thoughts or the depression that comes with them. The result is a greater capacity to cope.


Meditation is a method for moving beyond the isolating tendency of the thinking mind.


Whether in a psychotherapy office or sitting on a cushion, we are practicing awareness. In the psychotherapy office our awareness is trained on the past and on the future. In meditation it is trained on the experience of awareness itself.

Narcissism is a double-edged sword; individuals suffering from narcissism either idealize or devalue themselves and others. Buddhist psychology blunts both sides of this sword by declaring that there is no solid and lasting self. Meditative exercises allow individuals to personally discover that they are ever changing, impermanent, and in the flow of life.


Meditation increases the psychotherapist's capacity for single pointed awareness. Relating in this way to a person who comes for help is an act of deep caring. It heals.


Strange how people come into our offices feeling guilty for trouble that is well beyond human control.


Letting go is a skill that can be taught.